What kind of relationship have you had with your father?

Discussion question for August 24, 2018.

The way we relate to our earthy father has a big impact on how we are able to relate to our heavenly father.  How would you characterize the interaction you had with your father?  What strengths and values did your father teach you?  What weaknesses and failures did you observe?  In what ways have you over-stated his strengths?  In what ways have you compensated for his weaknesses?  How does your personality reflect your responses to him?  What would you change, if you could, to redeem the relationship?  How do these truths inform you about your relationship with God?

How have you bonded with God?

Discussion question for August 17, 2018.

Those who are led by the Spirit are adopted as sons of God (Rom. 8:14), but adoptees may struggle with bonding.  How would you describe a bonded relationship?  With whom have you bonded easily?  Which of your relationships have struggled in bonding?  How has your former orphan mentality impeded your ability to bond?  What has been your key to learning to bond with God?

What does it mean that you are a fellow-heir with Christ?

Discussion question for August 10, 2018.

According to Romans 8:14-17 we are adopted sons of God.  How did you become adopted?  Describe your current relationship with your Heavenly Father.  What are the requirements for being an heir?  What are the advantages?  How does your life reflect this spiritual truth?

Which Christian role is your strongest?

Discussion question for July 27, 2018.

The anointing of the Holy Spirit equips the Christian for each of the offices of the Kingdom: Prophet, Priest, and King.  How are you expressing your role as Prophet?  For whom are you engaged as Priest?  What does it mean that you are a King?

How do you get fed?

Discussion question for July 20, 2018.  Note: No meeting on July 13.

We need to discuss the practical response to the question of spiritual nourishment.  When do you read, study, meditate, and apply the truths of the Bible?  What is your primary means of motivation for digging into God’s ways?  What is your main purpose for pursuing His truth?  Suggest one or two strategies to overcome your primary roadblock.

How do you get your spiritual nourishment?

Discussion question for July 6, 2018.

Hebrews 5:13-14 makes a distinction between the mature and immature believer based on their ability to “feed themselves.”  How dependent are you on skilled teachers to gain spiritual understanding?  What contributes to the condition of Christians that live on “milk rather than solid food?”  What is your training regimen for learning the ways of God?  How do you encourage younger believers to engage with the truth?

How will you improve your RQ with God?

Discussion question for June 29, 2018.

We talked about the importance of prayer, time management, and attention management to invest in our relationship with God.  How satisfied are you with your relational quotient (RQ)?  What are the barriers you have to overcome to spend more time with God?  How do you set your heart and mind toward prayer?  What keeps you focused?  When the devil tries to dissuade you, what are your most effective tools for persevering?

How do we find balance?

Discussion question for June 22, 2018.  Note: No meeting on June 15.

The world around us demands more and more in productivity and expectations.  What are your tools for holding a healthy balance in your relationship with God and others?  How do you establish goals and boundaries in your work life?  How would you describe your RQ (relational quotient)?  What tempts you to overwork or hyper-responsibility?  How do you guard against the pull from the world?

How does your relationship with God impact the world?

Discussion question for June 8, 2018.

We talked about the benefit of getting away from distractions and nearer God through creation to help hear from Him.  What does His message to you mean for the world around you?  What has He asked you to do in response to His words?  How do you share what you know?  When are you most likely to divulge the nature of your relationship with Him to others?

How do we connect with God?

Discussion question for June 1, 2018.

In order to hear from God we have to listen to Him.  What is your favorite way to spend time with God?  How do you focus your attention on Him?  What is your benefit when you connect with others?  What must you do to become more relational?